After breaking up with my last ex, I made a list of qualities I was looking for in a significant other.
I was determined not to start another relationship that was bound to fail, or slide back into old patterns that made me miserable.
Each time I met a new guy, I mentally scanned the list…easygoing, check; talks things out instead of walking away, check… Fifteen years later, I'm still happily hitched to the man I married just four months after we met, and I think the list has had a lot to do with our staying power.
I was determined not to start another relationship that was bound to fail, or slide back into old patterns that made me miserable.
Each time I met a new guy, I mentally scanned the list…easygoing, check; talks things out instead of walking away, check… Fifteen years later, I'm still happily hitched to the man I married just four months after we met, and I think the list has had a lot to do with our staying power.




